Showing posts with label mercy. Show all posts
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Sunday, July 20, 2008

"There IS a Hell and It's Not Empty!" #21

This weeks' reading speak of judgment, hell, and forgiveness. There is commentary following the 1st Reading AND the Gospel.

Reading 1
Wis 12:13, 16-19


There is no god besides you who have the care of all,
that you need show you have not unjustly condemned.
For your might is the source of justice;
your mastery over all things makes you lenient to all.
For you show your might when the perfection of your power is disbelieved;
and in those who know you, you rebuke temerity.
But though you are master of might, you judge with clemency,
and with much lenience you govern us;
for power, whenever you will, attends you.
And you taught your people, by these deeds,
that those who are just must be kind;
and you gave your children good ground for hope
that you would permit repentance for their sins.


1st Reading and Psalm -The Just Judge

The first reading describes God as lenient and talks about how he judges with lenience. Let's go through an exercise for a moment. Think of 3 really bad sins you have committed. Please do this now.

Example sins just to refresh your memory:

  • Renouncing God, cursing God, involvement in other religions, denying your faith
  • Sins against your parents
  • Abortion, assault
  • Sexual sin, adultery, pornography
  • Stealing, lying

Right now, think of 3 really bad sins you have committed during your life.

Those sins were terrible weren't they? You probably don't want to commit them any more. Now after committing those sins, did God kill you? Probably not, since you are reading this. We should remember that at any time during our sins, God could have lost patience with us and just erased us from existence or sent us to hell. Yet, he hasn't done this yet. He hasn't done it yet, because he judges with leniency. As this week's Psalm says, God is "slow to anger".

The first reading reminds us that God has taught us by his deeds. God teaches us by example. He gives life to us despite that he has nothing to gain from it, rather he only wishes to share. By God's example of generosity, we know to help the poor man on the street even though we have very little to gain from it. God offers us forgiveness for our sins, and in doing so, he teaches us to forgive our friends, family, and even the biggest enemies of God.

Our Hope, His Loyalty, Our Prayers

The reading goes on to say that we have a reason for hope. Our hope is that we turn away from our sins. What this means is that although God is the almighty judge and he does punish sinfulness, he gives us easy access to hope. We can give up our sins and live in peace and love with him and the entire family of believers. Our hope is that we turn away from our sins and to God instead.

In this week's Psalm, David says that God is "abounding in fidelity". That means that God is loyal. How do we know that he is loyal? Again, we can look at the sins that we committed and the fact that God has not abandoned us. Like a faithful spouse of an faithful spouse, he wants us to remain together forever even though we offended him terribly. His mercy and generosity shows that he IS LOYAL forever.

This Psalm says that God is good and forgiving. David then asks God to hear (hearken) his prayer. Remember that our hope is that we repent (turn away) from our sins. When we do this, we must turn towards the Lord, because he is good and forgiving. Many of us turn to our friends when we screw up instead of God. We ask our friends to hear our stories in hope that they will agree with OUR side of the story. Instead of asking for forgiveness from God, we ask for sympathy from our pals and in doing so, we wallow in our sins and we ARE NOT forgiven. Instead of doing this, let's take our sins to God the way David did and receive the forgiveness that we need and hope in.

Responsorial Psalm
Ps 86:5-6, 9-10, 15-16


R. (5a) Lord, you are good and forgiving.
You, O LORD, are good and forgiving,
abounding in kindness to all who call upon you.
Hearken, O LORD, to my prayer
and attend to the sound of my pleading.
R. Lord, you are good and forgiving.
All the nations you have made shall come
and worship you, O LORD,
and glorify your name.
For you are great, and you do wondrous deeds;
you alone are God.
R. Lord, you are good and forgiving.
You, O LORD, are a God merciful and gracious,
slow to anger, abounding in kindness and fidelity.
Turn toward me, and have pity on me;
give your strength to your servant.
R. Lord, you are good and forgiving.

Reading II
Rom 8:26-27


Brothers and sisters:
The Spirit comes to the aid of our weakness;
for we do not know how to pray as we ought,
but the Spirit himself intercedes with inexpressible groanings.
And the one who searches hearts
knows what is the intention of the Spirit,
because he intercedes for the holy ones
according to God's will.

Gospel
Mt 13:24-43
or 13:24-30

Jesus proposed another parable to the crowds, saying:
"The kingdom of heaven may be likened
to a man who sowed good seed in his field.
While everyone was asleep his enemy came
and sowed weeds all through the wheat, and then went off.
When the crop grew and bore fruit, the weeds appeared as well.
The slaves of the householder came to him and said,
'Master, did you not sow good seed in your field?
Where have the weeds come from?'
He answered, 'An enemy has done this.'
His slaves said to him,
'Do you want us to go and pull them up?'
He replied, 'No, if you pull up the weeds
you might uproot the wheat along with them.
Let them grow together until harvest;
then at harvest time I will say to the harvesters,
"First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles for burning;
but gather the wheat into my barn."'"

He proposed another parable to them.
"The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed
that a person took and sowed in a field.
It is the smallest of all the seeds,
yet when full-grown it is the largest of plants.
It becomes a large bush,
and the 'birds of the sky come and dwell in its branches.'"

He spoke to them another parable.
"The kingdom of heaven is like yeast
that a woman took and mixed with three measures of wheat flour
until the whole batch was leavened."

All these things Jesus spoke to the crowds in parables.
He spoke to them only in parables,
to fulfill what had been said through the prophet:
I will open my mouth in parables,
I will announce what has lain hidden from the foundation
of the world.

Then, dismissing the crowds, he went into the house.
His disciples approached him and said,
"Explain to us the parable of the weeds in the field."
He said in reply, "He who sows good seed is the Son of Man,
the field is the world, the good seed the children of the kingdom.
The weeds are the children of the evil one,
and the enemy who sows them is the devil.
The harvest is the end of the age, and the harvesters are angels.
Just as weeds are collected and burned up with fire,
so will it be at the end of the age.
The Son of Man will send his angels,
and they will collect out of his kingdom
all who cause others to sin and all evildoers.
They will throw them into the fiery furnace,
where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.
Then the righteous will shine like the sun
in the kingdom of their Father.
Whoever has ears ought to hear."


Judgment

This gospel is VERY simple and straight to the point. In Jesus' parable, the children of the kingdom go to heaven, and the children of the evil one go to hell for eternity. Who are the children of the evil one? Jesus describes them as, "all who cause others to sin, and evildoers". Are we evildoers? Do we cause others to sin? I remember once before, I knew a girl who was using a guy for money. I advised her to get all she could get. I caused her to sin. In another example, a friend of mine advised his buddy that because he is extremely wealthy, he should not have a girlfriend. He then suggested that his buddy could have sex with lots of girls instead of having just one girlfriend.

Some people might say, "people have their own choice". But make no mistake, our friends and family listen to what we say. As an example, do you ever see certain movies because your friends recommend them? Have you ever visited a doctor or dentist because of someone's recommendation? Of course you have. Our words are POWERFUL enough to lead someone to heaven or hell. We should be more careful about what we say to others.

We cause others to sin all of the time, especially our best friends. We tell them to watch terrible television programs. We allow our children to do whatever they want! We sing songs that glorify sin!4 The singers of these anti-heaven songs are causing others to sin! According to Jesus, what happens to those who cause others to sin? THEY GO TO HELL!


God the Merciful Judge

We have to remember that as Catholics, we don't believe in just certain passages of the Bible, we believe in the whole thing. The whole message of the Bible indicates that although hell exists, God is merciful. God does not want us to go to hell. He leaves it up to us. Our hope is repentance, just as in the first reading. We believe that God is slow to anger and he is forgiving. Just look at the good thief whom Jesus forgave only moments before the thief's death. This thief admitted to committing a crime that deserved death. In America, almost all men who are executed are killed because they are either murderers or rapists. This thief committed terrible crimes and Jesus forgave him because the thief was sorry for what he had done. Remember that Peter sinned terribly against God by denying that he knew Jesus. Jesus' reaction was to forgive him. It's important to remember that although we CAN choose hell, it's not the choice that God wants for us.

Jesus Warns Us

On MANY occasions, Jesus warned people about the existence of hell and the road that leads to it. Some examples include:

  • Matthew 5:22 - "Fiery Gehenna"
  • Matthew 5:29 - "Your whole body thrown into Gehenna"
  • Matthew 10:28 - "….both body and soul in Gehenna"
  • Matthew 13:42 - "They will throw them into the fiery furnace"
  • Mark 10: 45: "thrown into Gehenna"
  • Matthew 22:15 - "into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth."

Some people argue that God is loving and there is no hell. This argument is completely illogical and totally wrong. Just like the teaching of the Eucharist, the passion, and forgiveness, Jesus repeats his most important teachings. This warning about hell is an important teaching to Jesus and to us as well. In an act of love, Jesus warns his friends of danger. After all, a fake friend will pass his alcoholic friend a drink, while a real friend would knock the drink out of his friend's hands and then warn him about alcoholism. Just the same, Jesus loves us. He did not come to condemn us. He came to save us.2

Hope

In Matthew chapter 20, Jesus tells the parable of the workers in the vineyard. There are complaints when those who showed up at the last minute still got a full day's pay. Part of the message of this parable is this: even though we have all sinned, it is NEVER too late to say sorry to God and to turn away from sin. As David says in the psalm, giving us permission to turn away from sin, is "good ground for hope". Let's put our faith in Jesus, who came to save us.

The Point

  • Despite years of sinning, God has not killed us. He wants to forgive us
  • God is a generous, lenient judge. We can see this by looking at Jesus' life
  • A huge source of hope is that we can turn away from sins and receive forgiveness
  • We know that God is loyal because despite all we have done to offend him, he sticks with us to the end.
  • We nudge our friends and family towards the path to hell with what we say to them
  • Hell exists and God wants to warns us not to choose hell
  • It is never too late to turn away from sins. As Catholics we believe that in order to go to hell, we have commit mortal (serious) sin and persist in it until the end.3 So, there is always hope and always an opportunity to be saved all the way until the end of our lives.

Real Life


I have mentioned this incident before, but I would like to tell this story in more detail.

About 6 months ago, I went to a Catholic retreat. There, I saw a priest with a huge beard who gave several talks. I was very intrigued by this man as soon as I saw him. There was something special about him, and I wanted to meet him. So, I waited in a long line for confession and there were 3 priests available to hear confessions. I made sure that I got to see the guy with the huge beard.

When I sat next to him and looked into his eyes, I felt like I was looking at Jesus. It wasn't just because the guy was a priest and he had a beard. As soon as I sat down with this man, I knew that he LOVED ME. I just knew it. It was radiating from his whole being. For a very brief instant, I was a little bit scared, because I felt like he could see my bad spiritual condition. But because of his love, I almost immediately felt total peace and comfort. I felt as though I could tell him anything.

After confessing about 3 really bad sins and telling him that I was ashamed of these sins, he said, "those are pretty big sins". I raised my eyebrow at that surprising comment. He went on to say, "those sins are like drops in the ocean of God's mercy. Listen to me very carefully, God is going to forgive you now for all of the sins you have ever committed. Do you understand I said, "yes". I closed my eyes and felt a light touch on my head. It felt very strange and tingly, so I peaked through my eyes and saw that the priest was not touching me. It was literally the hand of God touching my head! During the absolution it felt as though a mountain was being lifted off of my back. While my eyes were closed, I could see the ocean of mercy that the priest spoke of. It was incredible.

Before the retreat had started, I was hoping that God would speak to me regarding my vocation and the purpose that he had for me for my whole life. Rather than reveal that to me, God granted me forgiveness. It reminded me of the story of the healing of the crippled man in Mark 2:1-12. The man wanted to be healed of his condition. Jesus didn't say to the man, "I heal you in the name of God!" No, rather he said, "your sins are forgiven". He gave the man exactly what he NEEDED, not what he wanted. Just like the crippled man, God gave me EXACTLY what I NEEDED instead of what I wanted, and soon afterwards it was easier for me to walk the path God had for me, just like this crippled man

On this particular occasion with the huge-bearded priest, God gave me exactly what I needed and exactly what he wants to give to all of us. He wants us to have real HOPE that comes through turning away from sin (repentance)

God loves us!

=======================Mass Excitement #21=====================
1- there is no #1 sorry
2 - John 3:17
3 - CCC 1037
4- I was recently at an abortion "clinic" and one of the visitors drove off listening to a popular song called "promiscuous girl" in which the singers celebrate promiscuity.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

"The Best Known Bible Passage" #7 From April 6, 2008


This week features the most well-known passage of the Bible- John 3:16. It is an awesome message. We will discuss his love, hell, and God’s mercy. The only commentary is after the Gospel.


Reading 1Ex 34:4b-6, 8-9


Early in the morning Moses went up Mount Sinaias the LORD had commanded him,taking along the two stone tablets.Having come down in a cloud, the LORD stood with Moses thereand proclaimed his name, "LORD."Thus the LORD passed before him and cried out,"The LORD, the LORD, a merciful and gracious God,slow to anger and rich in kindness and fidelity."Moses at once bowed down to the ground in worship.Then he said, "If I find favor with you, O Lord,do come along in our company.This is indeed a stiff-necked people; yet pardon our wickedness and sins,and receive us as your own."


Responsorial PsalmDn 3:52, 53, 54, 55, 56R. (52b) Glory and praise for ever!Blessed are you, O Lord, the God of our fathers,praiseworthy and exalted above all forever;And blessed is your holy and glorious name,praiseworthy and exalted above all for all ages.R. Glory and praise for ever!Blessed are you in the temple of your holy glory,praiseworthy and glorious above all forever.R. Glory and praise for ever!Blessed are you on the throne of your kingdom,praiseworthy and exalted above all forever.R. Glory and praise for ever!Blessed are you who look into the depthsfrom your throne upon the cherubim,praiseworthy and exalted above all forever.R. Glory and praise for ever!


Reading II2 Cor 13:11-13


Brothers and sisters, rejoice.Mend your ways, encourage one another,agree with one another, live in peace,and the God of love and peace will be with you.Greet one another with a holy kiss.All the holy ones greet you.The grace of the Lord Jesus Christand the love of Godand the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with all of you.


GospelJn 3:16-18


God so loved the world that he gave his only Son,so that everyone who believes in him might not perishbut might have eternal life.For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world,but that the world might be saved through him.Whoever believes in him will not be condemned,but whoever does not believe has already been condemned,because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.


Gospel


God loved us so much that he sent his only Son so that if we believe in him we will not perish, but have eternal life. What does that mean? How is sending your son a sign of love?In order to answer these questions, we have to look at why God assumed human form (his only son). Why did he do that?



  • God became flesh in order to rescue us.1 Think about your life for a moment. Have you committed serious sins? You probably have and I certainly have committed them as well. The worst part about these sins is that they hurt God. When you lie to someone, you are hurting that person, but even worse is the fact that you are offending and disobeying the God who created you and who loves you. So we have all screwed up. We need a savior. God recognized our terrible condition and sent his Son to rescue us.

  • He came so that we might know how much he loves us. As Christians, we believe that Jesus is equivalent to the Father and they are one God. So it’s not like God sent a good friend of his down to us. He sent himself. He came down from heaven to walk the Earth with us! On your wedding day, do you want your best friend to be there? I do. At your deathbed, do you want your best friend to be there? Sure, why not? God wants to be there for us also, so he came to Earth to let us know that he loves us by being present with us-physically on Earth 2000 years ago, and physically now in the Eucharist.

  • He came to be our role model. We have all heard that the best way to teach is by example. God walked the Earth and if we want to know how to live well, we only have to look at his life. Fortunately, his life was documented in great detail. What an opportunity we have to know in great detail how God lives and how he loves. We have a wonderful teacher. Jesus says, “love one another as I have loved you.”3 In other words, “you have seen how I love, all you have to do is copy me!” Pretty simple right? Because of his love for us, Jesus wanted to make it easy for us to understand him and how we should live.4

John 3:16 is the passage that we have seen at sporting events and it may be the most popular and best known verse of the Bible because it is so important. God shows that he loves us by giving his only son, so that we might not perish but have eternal life. If you look at the text above, you can see how loving it is of God to give his only Son and why God did it. He did it as a gift to us. The next part of the Gospel says that God “did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him.” We have just discussed how God sent his Son to save us. But why would anyone think that Jesus was sent to condemn us?


Chewing on Lead


When I was about 16 years old, I was hanging out with a friend of mine. Another kid from the neighborhood was with us. My friend and I had some lead pellets that were meant for an air rifle (BB gun). This other kid from the neighborhood “Ricky” grabbed one of the lead pellets and began to chew on it. I was very alarmed when he did that because the package said that “lead is a reproductive toxin and causes brain damage.” I said to Ricky, “you know that eating lead causes brain damage, don‘t you?” Then I told him to quit chewing on the lead. He got very defensive immediately. He said, “that’s not true”. Then Ricky told me that he chewed on lead all of the time. I felt sorry for him, but he seemed angry at me for bringing it up. I just wanted to warn him that he was hurting himself. I understand why Ricky was defensive. He had chewed on lead before and if he admitted that I was right, he had to admit the damage he had done to himself. It must have been upsetting to him. God also notices that we are “chewing on lead” when we sin. He knew 2000 years ago how in need we were, so he sent his only Son. Jesus came to baptize with “fire and water“ (Matt 3:11). The Holy Spirit is described as fire because of fire’s ability to change and to transform. Jesus wants to transform us, but he does this not to condemn us, but so that we can be saved. Jesus does not want us to sin because it damages not only our brains, but our souls. He came to save us, not to condemn us.


Here are some example scenarios in our lives today:


Me: I love my girlfriend and we are going to have sex.


Jesus: You are chewing on lead- please stop that!


Me: I am going to have an abortion. It is the right choice.


Jesus: You are chewing on lead- please stop that!


Me: My wife and I can’t get along, I want to get a divorce.


Jesus: You are chewing on lead- please stop that!


Me: I am rich! It’s time to live it up! Life is short, I wanna have as much fun as possible before I die! As for poor people, they need to get jobs!


Jesus: You are chewing on lead- please stop that!


God came to warn us and stop us from hurting ourselves. It’s painful to admit that we are wrong, but that’s the first step towards change.


Where is God?


My fellow missionaries and I often visit jail inmates. One common reason they give for not believing in God is that so many bad things have happened to them that they think that a good, loving God would not allow such things. In other words, God doesn’t exist because if he did, evil would not exist, nor go unpunished. Many of us have been hurt by rape, theft, murder, lies and other sins. WE WANT JUSTICE! In other words, we want wrong-doers to be punished! On the other hand, I often hear people say that if God was loving, there would be no hell. They ask, “How can God be good if there is a hell?”


Crazy Demands


Our demands of God are ridiculous when you think about it. On the one hand, we want punishment for wrong doers. On the other hand, we ARE the wrongdoers and we don’t want to be punished. How ridiculous we are! This reminds me of a child who wants to “have his cake and eat it”. It’s like the kid who wants to keep a dollar and also wants to spend it at the same time. In sin, we make these types of requests of God:



  • Lord, I want unmarried sex with someone’s daughter, or son, but I don’t want responsibility


  • Lord, I want all the money I can get, but I don’t want to share.


  • Lord, I want people to be punished for wrongdoing, but don’t punish ME

Apparently, God is very patient with us, because if I were God, I would strike my creatures with lightning any time they made such stupid requests of me. But God does not strike us with lightning because of our sins (even though justice calls for it). He gives us chance after chance after chance in his infinite mercy. God “is patient with you, not wishing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” (2 Pet 3:9) God “wills everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.” (1 Tim 2:4).


Since we know God, in all of his beauty, we are called to spread the good news of his love. Like a loving parent who warns his kids not to cross the street without looking both ways, Jesus warns us of the dangers of hell.6 Do you believe EVERYTHING that Jesus says? He believes that hell exists.5 Do you? Our knowledge of hell is a call to conversion. Since we know that hell exists, we are supposed to do something about it. Some people know that driving drunk kills people and increases the cost of auto insurance by thousands yet they drink and drive anyway. Are we going to ignore the consequences of our sins in the same way a drunken driver ignores reality? Not only should we listen to Jesus, but we should follow his example. He warned others about hell, and so should we. When we see our relatives, friends, and co-workers inching towards hell, we should try to help them and if we can, we should try to save them.


When you go on a commercial flight, the flight attendant says that if they lose cabin pressure, oxygen masks will emerge. They tell you to put your mask on first before helping others. If not, the whole plane would soon be full of unconscious people. Just the same, we cannot “save our friends” if we don’t first follow God’s loving commandments first.


The Point


  • God came to Earth in order to rescue us, to show us how much he loves us, and to be the ultimate role model for us to follow. This proves that “God so loved the world”

  • Even though it hurts like a dental appointment, God points out our mistakes because he loves us

  • Our loving God is a God of justice. He lets us choose every day whether we wish to go to heaven or hell. It is up to us.

  • In our weakness, we want wrongdoers to be punished yet, we don’t want to be punished ourselves.

  • God is patient with us. He gives us many chances to go back to him after we sin terribly.

  • Jesus believes in hell and we should as well.

  • Since we know there is a hell, we must live in such a way to avoid hell. We should help others to live good lives as well.

Real Life


This week, I made a general confession. I did so because St. Francis De Sales recommends that we do it in his book Introduction to Devout Life. Also, I trust the people who recommended this book to me. A general confession means that you tell the priest every sin that you’ve ever committed. It was extremely painful to write. In fact, the day I wrote most of it, I felt horrible and terribly ashamed. I wanted to be invisible for just one day so that no one would see me and know how terrible of a sinner I am. The day that I CONFESSSED these sins to a priest was different. I did feel shame and I shed some tears, but I started to feel better as I spoke to him. He reminded me that at anytime during my terribly sinful life, God could have killed me if he wanted to. Yet, he did not. The priest showed me that in confessing and remembering all of these sins, I was reminded of how much mercy God has on me. God is so good to me. Afterwards, I bowed my head and received God’s forgiveness- again. I have experienced 2 confessions in my life that I will never forget. In the first one, God literally put his hand on my head (I could feel it yet could not see it). In the second one, which took place this past week, the priest put his hand on my head and again, I felt that mountain of sin lift off of my back to replaced by God’s infinite mercy and love. It felt good. Truly, God wants to pat us on our sinful heads and say that, “he so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but have eternal life.”God is beautiful.


Originally written around April 7, 2008 and was entitled "Jesus vs. Lead"


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1- 1 Jn 4:10, 4:14, 3:5


2- 1 Jn 4:9


3- Jn 15:12


4- The entire first section on why God became flesh is nothing I came up with on my own. It is paraphrased from the Catechism of the Catholic Church 457-460.


5- Hell is punishment and the worst part of hell is separation from God. (CCC 1035) When we sin, we make a statement to God. Namely, we are saying, “I don’t trust you.” We don’t trust that Gods knows how we should live. We don’t trust him when he offers us protection from sin through obedience. We don’t trust him and therefore, we reject him. Hell is nothing more than a permanent state of that rejection of God. The sinner, who does not trust God during his life, gets to live in this self-chosen state for eternity.


6- Mat 5:22, 29; 10:28; 13:42, 50; Mk 9:43-48